Even if the decisions we make sometimes are not right and may not fit that particular situation; it is still the right way by just making a decision. If you don't, you may miss the best things in life. Say that your parents are the major problem on why you can't make that certain decision. That you have to think about the other person's feelings before you make up your mind. Yes, you should keep that into account but there are times when you should just follow your guts and do it. Being selfish and think about what's best for yourself first is best before you think about others. It may hurt in the beginning but it'll be worth it in the end.
Next, I'm sure most of us may say that we do not have the money to move forward; say like buying the things that you want now as you can't have it during the past, but, you are restricted as you do not have any money. A simple example would be the students in Malaysia who are taking loans from the National Higher Education Fund Corporation (P.T.P.T.N). Not all loans given by P.T.P.T.N is the same as it all depends again on your parents salary and how much the family itself have to bear. Every student must control their expenditure and learn how to budget themselves which restricts them from spending more than they should. That is why some students in universities seem to be uptight and too picky about things. But hey, come to think of it, us students wants to buy the things that we could not afford mainly because of peer pressure.
As you can see in this evolving world, not only students but even toddlers knows how to use advanced technologies. If you search in deeper, even cats have their own iPad's to play games and keep their mind active. My point being is that, since you have money restriction in possessing the things you desire, keep this in check; decide on what brings you the most benefit as a student, think whether the stuff you want is urgent to have or not and when you already thought about the right decision, do it directly with no hesitations what so ever. This is to avoid you from changing your mind multiple times.
Besides that, phobias are one of the restrictions in doing something. Phobia is an anxiety disorder and usually said to be a continuous and persistent fear on things and situation in which the sufferer tries his or her best in achieving great lengths to avoid them. There are various types of phobia and not all of them carry similar traits. Such examples would be, claustrophobia, hydrophobia, social phobia and etc. The most common phobia would be fear of heights. Most people are afraid of high places especially when they have to board the plane, hiking up the mountains and even afraid of looking down when going up the escalator. Nowadays, such fears are overcome by doing extreme activities that can increase the pulse and heart rate and kick start the adrenaline in your body. By deciding to participate in extreme sports such as bungey-jumping, rock climbing, parachuting, flying-fox and etc, you are able to challenge yourself, increase your creativity and finally have the guts to feel the freedom. Freedom to make choices, freedom to think and freedom to say whatever that needs to be said.
As a nutcracker, there are tons other restrictions in making your decision asides the ones stated here. However, all of these boundaries need to be broken down and you need to break yourself free from all of this boundaries.
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